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The Parent and Family Engagement Connection

Posted Date: 02/13/2019

The Parent and Family Engagement Connection

Back in the day there used to be a TV ad that asked, how do you spell relief? The answer, R-O-L-A-I-D-S.

Let me ask, how do you spell success? Is the answer S-T-A-A-R? Good grades. Honor roll. Football or volleyball victories. Fine arts achievement. Athletic awards. First chair. Perfect attendance. High school graduation. Acceptance into post-secondary education. Increased reading levels. Girl scout or boy scout merit badges. Other?

The season for high stakes testing is rapidly approaching. In many schools and homes stress levels are beginning to rise. These tests are important, but remember, it is just one test with opportunities for retests.

Many students will face far more challenging tests with possible serious consequences. Parents divorce. The death of a family member. Homelessness. Chronic illness or injury that prevents them from participating in a favorite activity or sport. Persistent bullying and harassment. Teen pregnancy. Temptations to use drugs, alcohol, and tobacco. Physical or sexual abuse by an adult. And the list goes on.

Yes, absolutely, educators and families want their students to pass the STAAR tests. But as mentors, role models, and parents we desire our children to excel in the tests of life. Success is spelled – Perseverance. Resilience. Forgiveness. Empathy. Purpose-driven. Goal-oriented. Compassion. Integrity. These essential character traits are not often printed in a curriculum or lesson plan, because they are more often caught than taught. It is up to us adults to demonstrate these traits daily. When we fail, be tenacious and try again. When we wrong others, including our children, genuinely apologize. When we are wronged, be quick to forgive. When we see a person in pain, be ready to listen and show tenderness. When we see others struggling, understand their need and share what we have.

Students can read about great men and heroic women, but the impact is more powerful when they see it lived out in the people they trust and respect. Perhaps the greatest gift we can pass on to our children are practical life skills. They will read it in our facial expression. They will hear it in our tone of voice. They will emulate our body language. In 2019 let’s teach our children how to spell success.

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